Making the decision -- Saving your marriage: when there's hope -- Planning for divorce -- Love in ruins -- Separation -- When there's no turning back -- Navigating the law -- The art of the deal -- How to find and retain an attorney -- The full-service attorney -- Handling your case pro se -- Hiring a lawyer for specific tasks -- Mediation, arbitration, and collaboration -- Taking your case to court -- When divorce turns vicious -- Paying the bill -- Closing the book on your case -- Same-sex divorce -- Divorce in Europe -- The economics of divorce -- Dividing it up -- Inheritance, wills, and other estate issues -- Spousal support -- Child support -- Managing your money solo -- Focus on the children -- Thinking about custody -- Breaking the news -- Working out time-sharing schedules -- Two parents, two homes -- Single parenting -- Redefining the family -- Facing your feelings.