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We think we know the story of Eleanor Roosevelt - the shy, awkward girl who would redefine the role of First Lady, becoming a civil rights activist and an inspiration to generations of young women. As legend has it, the bane of Eleanor's life was her demanding and domineering mother-in-law, Sara Delano Roosevelt. Biographers have overlooked the complexity of a relationship that had, over the years, been reinterpreted and embellished by Eleanor herself.Through diaries, letters, and interviews with Roosevelt family and friends, Jan Pottker uncovers a story never before told. The result is a triumphant blend of social history and psychological insight - a revealing look at Eleanor Roosevelt and the woman who made her historic achievements possible.
Author Notes
Jan Pottker is the author of seven previous books. Pottker has a Ph.D. from Columbia University and lives in Potomac, Maryland, with her husband, Andrew S. Fishel
Reviews (4)
Publisher's Weekly Review
Pottker (Janet and Jackie: The Story of a Mother and Her Daughter, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis) has made a specialty of tell-alls about the wealthy and the powerful, from the Mars family to Ann Landers and Abigail Van Buren. But in Sara and Eleanor a study of the complex, sometimes supportive, sometimes contentious relationship between FDR's wife and mother Pottker embarks upon serious historical waters. Navigating across a story already well traversed by such superb writers and researchers as Blanche Wiesen Cook, Geoffrey Ward and Betty Boyd Caroli (the latter in 1998's The Roosevelt Women), Pottker unfortunately, despite her protestations, has nothing new to add to the well-worn tale of these two fascinating ladies. One comes away from Pottker's book wondering why she believed another retelling (one that comes at the story far less eloquently and authoritatively than previous efforts) to be necessary in the first place. The answer lies, apparently, in Pottker's revisionist tack when it comes to key details. For example, Pottker somewhat astonishingly in the face of much testimony to the contrary discounts the notion of Franklin ever having had a true affair with Eleanor's social secretary, Lucy Mercer. But the revision in question is purely speculative on Pottker's part, not based on evidence. Both Eleanor and Sara deserve and have gotten in the past far more accurate accounts of themselves. Readers should refer to those. 16 pages of b&w photos not seen by PW. Agent, Mel Berger, William Morris. (Mar.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved
Booklist Review
Eleanor Roosevelt is revered around the world for her human rights advocacy, but she was extremely complicated, and everyone who writes about her describes a somewhat different person. Pottker wrote aboutackieennedy Onassis' relationship with her mother in anet andackie0 (2001), and now turns to the infamously contentious relationship between Eleanor and her formidable mother-in-law, Sara Delano Roosevelt. Sara is remembered as being domineering and interfering, but she was also one of the most powerful, wealthy, and admired women of her time. She not only bankrolled her son's large household (he and Eleanor had five children), she was also, Pottker cogently argues, a tremendous help to her orphaned daughter-in-law. And her life story is riveting. Tall, striking, energetic, adaptable, and self-possessed, she survived a shocking litany of family tragedies, became an ardent philanthropist, and enjoyed life to the hilt. Whatever domestic struggles Eleanor suffered under her mother-in-law's reign, Sara's unstinting support did enable her the freedom to become a world leader. Pottker's resurrection of a revered First Mother and an American original is an important and thoroughly absorbing addition to the Roosevelt canon. --Donna Seaman Copyright 2004 Booklist
Kirkus Review
A thoroughly researched, though highly chatty and oddly superficial, attempt to rehabilitate the image of FDR's mother, which was besmirched, the author argues, by less sympathetic Roosevelt biographers. Pottker (Janet and Jackie: The Story of a Mother and Her Daughter, 2001, etc.) writes for the Princess Di set, for lovers of royals and riches and American dynasties. Here are accounts of who was wearing cream taffeta at which Roosevelt wedding; here are six pages devoted to the 1939 visit to Hyde Park of Queen Elizabeth and King George VI and the spats between Eleanor and Sara about the menu. Here is such a concern for the exteriors of people's lives (what they wore, where they lived, how their homes were decorated, what they drove, where they traveled, what they bought) that interior lives must almost always be inferred, and then only with difficulty. Pottker just doesn't want to get into it. Neither, in this strangely prudish account, does she wish to be more than coy about sexual issues. The author tells us that the teenaged Eleanor installed triple interior locks on her bedroom door because of drunken uncles. What does that mean? You won't find the answer here. Nor does the author give credence to stories that FDR and Lucy Mercer actually had sexual relations. No, she claims, it was just an intimate relationship. Pottker tries to focus on the stories of the two titular women, but that's hard to do with FDR filling the stage with his charm, his polio, his political successes. And, besides, the author's principal intent is to reinstall Sara Delano Roosevelt on her pedestal--Sara, the woman who was on the cover of Time before her son (or daughter-in-law), the woman who was the heart and soul and financial officer for the Roosevelt clan. In short: the mother of all matriarchs. Skims across the surface of a very deep lake. (16 pp. b&w photos, not seen) Copyright ©Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
Library Journal Review
Pottker (Janet and Jackie; Dear Ann, Dear Abby) considers another power relationship, that of Sara Delano Roosevelt and Eleanor Roosevelt. Contrary to popular belief, she would have readers believe that Sara was not a gorgon, a racist, an anti-Semite, or a snob; she supported FDR's political career and treated her moody daughter-in-law warmly. At most, Pottker concedes that Sara was something of a meddler. Moreover, Eleanor owed Sara her marriage because Sara apparently warned Franklin that a divorce from Eleanor meant the end of Sara's largesse. Accordingly, Eleanor comes off less well. Emerging from her painful childhood to become a depressed and emotionally unavailable mother, she is shown initially welcoming Sara's extravagant attentions to her and Franklin's children and then carping about them in retrospect. Pottker has extensively researched this book and filled it with convincing and engaging details to make her case for Sara. She takes a defensive tone-not surprising considering that Sara has taken it on the chin from Dore Schary (in Sunrise at Campobello) and Eleanor herself, whose retrospective criticism of her mother-in-law has informed recent scholarship. So perhaps Pottker's sympathetic portrait is overdue. For public libraries.-Cynthia Harrison, George Washington Univ., Washington, DC (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
Table of Contents
| Prologue | p. ix |
| 1. "French by Ancestry, Dutch by Birth, and English by Association" | p. 1 |
| 2. On the West Bank of the Hudson River Lived the Delanos | p. 7 |
| 3. "My Orderly Little Life" | p. 16 |
| 4. The Contented Spinster | p. 25 |
| 5. On the East Bank of the Hudson River Lived the Roosevelts | p. 30 |
| 6. "A Gentleman of the Old School" | p. 38 |
| 7. Hyde Park | p. 43 |
| 8. "A Democrat Can Be a Gentleman" | p. 48 |
| 9. "Sallie and Mr. Roosevelt" | p. 52 |
| 10. "We Three" | p. 61 |
| 11. The Oyster Bay Clan | p. 68 |
| 12. "A Beautiful Frame" | p. 75 |
| 13. Groton School | p. 80 |
| 14. Allenswood School | p. 85 |
| 15. Mother and Guardian | p. 89 |
| 16. Sparks and Smolders | p. 94 |
| 17. "For Life, for Death!" | p. 100 |
| 18. "Keeping the Name in the Family" | p. 107 |
| 19. Roosevelt and Roosevelt | p. 115 |
| 20. "Dearest Mama" | p. 120 |
| 21. "Modern Ideas" | p. 129 |
| 22. "The Chicks" | p. 135 |
| 23. "A Really Fine and Dignified Position" | p. 147 |
| 24. "Launched in Your Work" | p. 158 |
| 25. "The Traditions Some of Us Love Best" | p. 166 |
| 26. "A Kaleidoscope of Work" | p. 174 |
| 27. Miss Mercer | p. 181 |
| 28. "Our Boy" | p. 187 |
| 29. "Rainy Day" | p. 196 |
| 30. "Solidly Important Individual" | p. 201 |
| 31. "'I Got Up This Party for You'" | p. 210 |
| 32. Grit and Grace | p. 218 |
| 33. "Eleanor's Work Among the Women" | p. 225 |
| 34. Splintered | p. 236 |
| 35. "If He Does, I Hope He Wins" | p. 247 |
| 36. Happy Days | p. 259 |
| 37. First Mother | p. 266 |
| 38. "The Duchess" | p. 272 |
| 39. Gracious Lady, Modern Woman | p. 285 |
| 40. "You Are My Life" | p. 295 |
| 41. "Hyde Park and Me" | p. 300 |
| 42. "The Dowager Mrs. Roosevelt" | p. 309 |
| 43. "A World of Peace" | p. 315 |
| 44. "The Truth Must Be Shown" | p. 324 |
| 45. Brave Heart | p. 329 |
| 46. "Every Play Has to Have Its Heavy" | p. 336 |
| 47. Epilogue | p. 343 |
| Notes | p. 347 |
| Acknowledgments | p. 387 |
| Index | p. 395 |
