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Summary
Is what I'm feeling normal? Is what my body is doing normal? Am I normal? How do I know what are the right choices to make? How do I know how to behave? How do I fix it when I make a mistake?
Let's talk about it.
Growing up is complicated.
How do you find the answers to all the questions you have about yourself, about your identity, and about your body? Let's Talk About It provides a comprehensive, thoughtful, well-researched graphic novel guide to everything you need to know.
Covering relationships, friendships, gender, sexuality, anatomy, body image, safe sex, sexting, jealousy, rejection, sex education, and more, Let's Talk About It is the go-to handbook for every teen, and the first in graphic novel form.
Author Notes
Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan are both full-time, professional cartoonists and comic book creators. They've been married for twelve years and working together for the past eight. They reside in Portland, OR. Together they run a sex education focused webcomic called Oh Joy Sex Toy , which has won an assortment of accolades over the years and was even featured in the Tate museum in London, England.
Reviews (4)
School Library Journal Review
Gr 9 Up--Don't be afraid. Yes, there are drawings of naked bodies in this book (mostly in the "Body Image" section), and, yes, readers will learn about some of the ways the human body is wired for pleasure. And the detailed drawings of genitals are not solely in service of explaining how babies are made. But every panel of this book, every anatomical drawing, every conversation over tea or in a tent, is loaded with crucial information about consent, respect, consideration, and boundaries. A magnificently varied cast of characters confess their insecurities to their best friends, siblings, crushes, lovers, and hookups and in return receive reassurance, information, and practical advice. Readers will learn about a laundry list of activities, including sexting, masturbation, gender, and fantasies, along with health issues such as safe sex and a couple of the less pleasant aspects of relationships: jealousy and rejection. Moen and Nolan have been making comics about sex for years--their comic Oh Joy Sex Toy has even been exhibited at the Tate Modern in London. Moen's richly individualistic characters keep the pages turning, despite some fat word balloons--the result of personality-rich dialogue and precision, which is important when it comes to topics like identity and relationships. A palette of browns, pinks, and grays continues the celebration of bodies of all shades and shapes. A sprinkling of profanity (including the odd F-bomb) must be noted as it may affect a school library's ability to shelve it. VERDICT Real talk about relationships and sex.--Paula Willey, Enoch Pratt Free Lib., Baltimore
Publisher's Weekly Review
Moen and Nolan (Oh Joy Sex Toy, a collected volume of their webcomic, for adults) apply their signature corny humor and straightforward handling of sex to this accessible guide that covers the "in-between stages" of intimacy, "from having a crush to... putting a condom on something." In bite-size sections that each begin with a question ("What is... aftercare?"), teen characters engage in meaningful and nuanced dialogues about aspects of identity and physicality (e.g., body image, gender and sexuality, kinks, and safe sex). Via realistic scenes and conversational dialogue balloons, characters create a blueprint for exploring their own vulnerability ("I haven't done anything before? At all??") and supporting others' ("I'm really glad you told me"). Responsibly representing a wide array of anatomically diverse "generally estrogen-rich" and "generally testosterone-rich" bodies, this guide's pale-hued art also showcases variations in ability, body shape, ethnicity, gender identity and expression, and pairings, creating a refreshingly inclusive read that takes individual desires and needs into account. Though some text-packed pages can be difficult to digest, they nevertheless provide vital information, embracing the complexity of relationships ("We're all constantly learning and growing") and offering comprehensive, no-nonsense information on sex and sexuality. Useful back matter suggests further reading and resources. Ages 14--up. Agent: Monika Verma, Levine Greenberg Rostan Literary. (Mar.)
Kirkus Review
An illustrated sexuality and relationship education resource for teens. A multiethnic set of realistic teen cartoon characters representing a wide diversity of body types (sizes, abilities, genders) have illuminating and honest conversations in this informative guide. The first chapter focuses on what sex is, how varied sexual expression can be, and what consent means. The second chapter nonjudgmentally explores various kinds of relationships, including monogamous, polyamorous, open, and companionate. Subsequent chapters discuss gender and sexuality (with joyful and varied illustrations), body image (featuring loving representations of many body types), anatomy (including outstanding drawings that are inclusive of trans and intersex people), masturbation (with how-to ideas presented), and thorough coverage of birth control and STI prevention. The book is rounded out with chapters on what to think about before having sex; orgasms; ground rules for sexting; kinks, fantasies, and porn; jealousy and rejection (including guidance on recognizing abusive patterns); potential impacts on friendship; and more. The tone throughout this colorful, visually appealing, and easy-to-read volume is honest, normalizing, and sex positive as it offers readers excellent and reassuring information. The married co-authors are known for their sex-education--related comic collaborations. While the dialogue can occasionally feel stilted as it conveys comprehensive content, the work is still crisp, breezy, effective, and noteworthy in a crowded field for its holistic emphasis on human, emotional aspects of sexuality. Puts the graphic in the graphic-novel format, in the best and most educational way. (further reading, authors' note, index) (Nonfiction. 13-18) Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
Booklist Review
While its title may sound coy, Let's Talk about It isn't euphemistic; instead, it's a frank and open-minded look at sex, relationships, and self-understanding. Chapters cover topics ranging from puberty and masturbation to gender identity and pronoun usage, all narrated by a varied cast of teenage characters. It may seem odd to imagine two kids having a nuanced discussion about consent during a game of seven minutes in heaven, but it's that sense of fun that keeps this book from feeling too preachy or academic. The expressive art will come as no surprise to fans of Moen and Nolan's previous work on Drawn to Sex (v.1, 2018) or Oh Joy, Sex Toy (v.1, 2014). Figures are alive and active, even in conversation, shown stretching, hugging, and making faces. With back matter including helpful resources, this book is recommended for teens who want an easy-to-follow guide that won't talk down to them, health educators wanting an engaging addition to their curriculum, and all those not afraid of seeing cartoon nudity while learning to love and express themselves.
Table of Contents
| What is ... this book? | p. 1 |
| What is ... first? | p. 9 |
| What is ... a relationship? | p. 25 |
| What are ... gender and sexuality? | p. 41 |
| What is ... body image? | p. 57 |
| What is ... your body? | p. 71 |
| Where do you ... start? | p. 93 |
| What is ... masturbation? | p. 107 |
| What is ... safe sex? | p. 125 |
| What is ... climax? | p. 137 |
| What is ... sexting? | p. 147 |
| What are ... kinks, fantasies, and porn? | p. 155 |
| What is ... aftercare? | p. 169 |
| Where are ... friends in all this? | p. 177 |
| What is ... jealousy? | p. 185 |
| What is ... rejection? | p. 197 |
| What is ... next? | p. 219 |
| Furthur reading | p. 228 |
| Authors' note | p. 230 |
| Index | p. 231 |
