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Introduces children to the realities of natural disasters, terrorism and other forms of tragedy.
In age-appropriate language and tone, Dr. Roberts explains what tragedy is, the feelings it may create and how to manage those feelings. She also emphasizes the good that can come out of tragedy, looking at how people help one another in caring, compassionate and heroic ways. The book's question-and-answer format will help parents have a meaningful conversation about these difficult topics with their children and equip parents to better handle questions that arise when children are exposed to the news.
Author Notes
Dr. Jillian Robertsis a renowned child psychologist, author, professor and parent. Considered a go-to child psychology expert for journalists, Dr. Roberts has had her work published in the New York Timesand the Toronto Sun, and is a regular contributor to HuffPost, Global News and CBC. She is the author of the bestselling Just Enough series which explains topics like birth and diversity to children ages 3-6. She lives in Victoria, British Columbia.
Jane Heinrichsis a children's book writer and illustrator. She starts her day at a clear desk with her huge sketchbook (for books) and her tiny sketchbook (for daily drawings) but usually ends up sitting on the floor, surrounded by a collection of paints, pencils and papers. Jane lives in the United Kingdom with her family.
Reviews (4)
School Library Journal Review
Gr 1--5--Language is powerful--this book understands that and provides words with definitions so children can grasp more nuance, more understanding, and thus more power when approaching these trying times. It's written in question-and-answer format, taking big questions children might ask and distilling them into comforting, straightforward answers. There's no sugarcoating or obfuscating the point. Yes, there are disasters. Yes, people can be responsible. But Roberts offers facts, without emotion or editorializing, and there are also counterpoints to each real-life photo of terrible events, illustrations of people being there for each other, of connection and community. While it might be difficult to present to small children, especially if they have no immediate tragedy or disaster to spur these questions, it's still worth having on hand for if/when these questions arise. The book is designed to grow with readers, with layers of meaning for future exploration, despite the simple writing of the questions, with sidebar additions of definitions, quotes, and anecdotes. VERDICT This is a perfect "back pocket" book, something to have on hand for when big questions arise. The basic format works well with kindergartners and small children, while the extra information will guide upper elementary students.--Cat McCarrey
Horn Book Review
Meant to foster discussion about upsetting news events, this book poses questions--such as "What causes a tragedy or disaster?"--and answers them in a child-appropriate manner. Purposeful but effective, the text defines tragedy and disaster and discusses those of natural, human, and technological causes; near book's end, Roberts briefly pontificates about finding meaning in tragedies. Serviceable illustrations and stock photographs appear throughout. Reading list. (c) Copyright 2019. The Horn Book, Inc., a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
Kirkus Review
A guidebook to help children through troubled times.This well-intentioned, ambitious book falters in attempts to guide caregivers in conversations with young children. Its failures arise in part from presenting three Western children (two of whom appear white and one who seems to be a girl of color) as the presumed stand-ins for readers. They are shown in watercolor vignettes reading newspapers and smartphones and talking to one another; these illustrations are juxtaposed with photographs of real people enduring real tragedies, which the text states can arise from human error, nature, and intentional, human acts of terror. Such distinctions are fraught since, for example, Hurricane Katrina is described as a "natural disaster," but historical analysis points to human error and negligence as compounding its tragic impact. Humanity's impact on climate change as a force behind natural disasters is likewise omitted. Furthermore, in contrast with the illustrated children, many if not most photos (they are uncaptioned) depict people of color in non-Western settings, giving the false impression that tragedies happen elsewhere, to others. Finally, text on closing pages that seeks to find meaning in tragedy may be read as romanticizing it with lines such as, "Perhaps tragedies happen to bring people together," and "Whenever something negative happens, there is a deep lesson in it" (quoting inspirational guru Eckhart Tolle). Yes, it's important to "look for the helpers" (backmatter quotes Fred Rogers), but what about dismantling systems that drive humanity toward so many tragedies?Heartfelt but uneven advice. (Nonfiction. 4-10) Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
Booklist Review
Part of understanding tragedies is accepting that most of the time we cannot control them." Tragedies happen almost every day across the world, and with the popularization of the internet, people are more connected than ever to what is happening around them. It can be hard to explain to children about natural disasters or senseless violence. This book handles a sensitive topic with kindness, compassion, and empathy. Readers will learn the difference between tragedies and disasters, and the differences between those caused by nature and by people. Technological disasters, like Chernobyl and the BP oil spill, are touched upon, and the book also explores ways to start conversations about why tragedies happen and the emotions surrounding them. Most important, tragedies can bring out the beauty and resilience of the human spirit, and the book ends by giving a realistic picture of how people help out during terrible times. A good beginning look at how to broach a complicated topic that's filled with positivity and hope.--Jessica Anne Bratt Copyright 2018 Booklist
