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One of the New York Times' 20 Books to Read in 2020
"A tonic . . . Splendid . . . A respite . . . A summer cocktail of a book." -- Washington Post
"Unforgettable . . . Behind her brilliantly witty and uplifting message is a remarkable vulnerability and candor that reminds us that we are not alone in our struggles--and that we can, against all odds, get through them." -- Lori Gottlieb, New York Times best-selling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
Part memoir and part joyful romp through the fields of imagination, the story behind a beloved pseudonymous Twitter account reveals how a writer deep in grief rebuilt a life worth living.
Becoming Duchess Goldblatt is two stories: that of the reclusive real-life writer who created a fictional character out of loneliness and thin air, and that of the magical Duchess Goldblatt herself, a bright light in the darkness of social media. Fans around the world are drawn to Her Grace's voice, her wit, her life-affirming love for all humanity, and the fun and friendship of the community that's sprung up around her.
@DuchessGoldblat (81 year-old literary icon, author of An Axe to Grind ) brought people together in her name: in bookstores, museums, concerts, and coffee shops, and along the way, brought real friends home--foremost among them, Lyle Lovett.
"The only way to be reliably sure that the hero gets the girl at the end of the story is to be both the hero and the girl yourself." -- Duchess Goldblatt
Author Notes
DUCHESS GOLDBLATT, 81, is the inspirational author of An Axe to Grind ; Feasting on the Carcasses of My Enemies: A Love Story ; and the heartwarming meditation on mothers and daughters Not If I Kill You First . A cultural icon, trophy ex-wife, friend to all humanity, and sponsor of the prestigious Goldblatt Prize in Fiction, she lives in Crooked Path, NY. She's fictional but her love is real.
ANONYMOUS, the real-life person in whose mind Duchess Goldblatt lives and flourishes, has gathered all available truth and beauty for these pages. There's nothing else to give.
Reviews (2)
Kirkus Review
How does a fictional character write a real memoir? Very, very well. Most readers who are active on social media are aware of Duchess Goldblatt, the acerbic yet warmhearted doyenne of Twitter, represented by a Frans Hals portrait of an elderly woman with a stiff muff around her neck. Over the years, she's dispensed witticisms and advice to her 24,000-plus followers, many of them writers, without giving away any clues about the person behind the persona. When she finally met her No. 1 fan, Lyle Lovett (it's a long story), he was shocked that she wasn't "a little old lady or a gay man!" Now, Duchess Goldblatt's admirers can get to know her still-anonymous creator, and perhaps the biggest surprise in this striking memoir is the fact that Duchess is a name (taken from a friend's dog), not a title, though no doubt everyone will keep calling her "Your Grace." The author created Duchess during a terrible time: She'd lost her job, her husband had left her, and she was tormented by the part-time separation from her young son. Duchess was a way for her to lurk online, but she soon found herself carefully crafting posts, responding to everyone who wrote to her, and finding solace in the community she'd created. The book is prismatic, moving among the author's difficult childhood, the years after her divorce, and her growing relationships with people Duchess had befriended--only a few of whom, including Lovett, have ever met her. She wrestles with the questions of whether she and Duchess are two separate people and how Duchess makes friends so easily when she herself feels almost friendless. Lovett's manager called what she's doing "collaborative performance art," and that's an apt term for it; together with Duchess' followers, she's created a long-term fever dream of humor, compassion, wordplay, and dog photos. A fascinating memoir by a 21st-century original. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
Booklist Review
A decade or so ago, the author of this memoir was curious about social media, but, having just had her life eviscerated by divorce attorneys, figured an anonymous account was the way to go. Enter her invention, Duchess Goldblatt, a beloved octogenarian writer with an "evergreen love for all humanity" who now has 25,000 Twitter followers. Incorporating some of the Duchess' quippy, tender tweets and conversations with her devoted following--a group that includes celebrated writers, other celebrities, and lots of nonfamous fans--this is the author's story of finding a voice and creating a community through this fictional character, an antidote to loneliness for herself and so many others. She delves into difficult family history, shares her late father's lessons in faith and kindness, and reveals her identity to a select few fans, including her "favorite of favorites," the author's now good friend, Lyle Lovett. The author is a heck of a writer; readers will rejoice when she sees she's not so different from her dear creation after all. A surprising, joyful story of social media at its best.